First visit to a swinger club

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Posted February 21, 2011 by SinVenus in World of swinging

First visit to a swinger club

 

Your first visit to a swinger club – SinVenus Planet of sex

So, its time to take the big step into your visit to a swinger club party. You have found a place that looks interesting, visited their website and if needed, made a reservation.Have you checked what the program is for a given evening? Its worth doing and seeing if it matches what you are looking for.

Swingers clubVisit to a swinger club

Are you happy visiting a club where single men are allowed? Or single women for that matter? Some allow singles on any night of the week, others confine them to specific evenings. There may be themed evenings. Its worth paying attention as there are clubs that specify some evenings are for the fetish or BDSM crowd, some nights may be reserved for serious experienced players and others may offer a beginners orientation evening. Some may even insist on a pre visit first if you are not known to them.It´s your First visit to a swinger club.

 

Dressing for visit to a swinger club

If there is a theme, it may mean you need to consider what you are going to wear, in this visit to a swinger club. Coming straight to a party from the office in your suit on a toga or fetish evening means you are going to look a little out of place and may even mean you are refused entry for not making at least an effort to dress accordingly.

In fact, the dress code for most clubs is not that challenging. With the exception of themed nights where the management or the website will be pretty specific about what is expected, smart casual/trendy for men and sexy/glamorous for women almost always works. In some countries, France jumps to mind, women are expected to wear skirts or dresses and may not be allowed entrance in trousers.

Shorts wont get you too far and jeans are normally not allowed but there are exceptions. As important is what you wear as the evening progresses. Lingerie frequently becomes mandatory after 10 or 11 p.m. in many clubs and this is the time to get the good stuff out. Both of you! Guys, nothing kills a mood faster than a pair of old cotton whites  and dark ankle socks when your female partner is wearing her best from Agent Provocateur.

 

Visit to a swinger club party

 

Pay attention to arrival times. Many clubs have a ‘doors close’ time in an effort to get everyone arriving with 90 minutes or so of each other and to get conversation going. While in some clubs, in particular in the UK and North American, people arrive late, frequently 11:00 p.m. or later, many of the large clubs in continental Europe have bars, discos, and in house restaurants where the food can be very good.

We have frequently seen lines forming at the door as early as 8:30 or 9:00 in Belgium and the Netherlands. You don´t want to be late at your first visit to a club.

 

Having fun when having a visit to a swinger club

Its always a good idea to take photo id on your first visit. Membership is frequently needed and is normally applied for at the door, but you will likely need to prove who you are and that you are old enough to be there. Despite the liberal attitudes that exist in many countries or states, owners work very hard to stay above the law and having identification checked when you join is for their protection and yours. Don’t even think about taking a minor with you.

Many clubs will offer you a tour if you are new. Take it. Even if you have been to other parties. Its a chance to get familiar with what is where, to understand the do’s and dont’s that may be different than other places you have been and will go a long way to making you feel more relaxed. Ask questions if you have any.

Visit to a swinger club  must be to ask every Thing. That’s what the tour is for after all! Many owners will introduce you to another couple that is known to them. Don’t take this as being ‘fixed up’. You are being introduced to someone who you can seek out if you have questions or concerns mid evening but who will also take a genuine interest in you putting you a little more at ease.

 

Party with friends when visit a swinger club

So you have done it! You have got your best party clothes on. You have got a new membership card or an admittance for 2 ticket tucked in your wallet and you have had a tour. Now  you are standing at the bar wondering what on earth do you do next! Its pretty simple really. Whatever you are comfortable with! You are in the midst of an extremely tolerant and open minded crowd, all of whom were beginners once.

Have you seen a friendly looking couple across the bar that you would like to meet? Smile and you will almost certainly receive a smile back. Introduce yourself! We promise.

You will get a friendly response back. Has another couple started a conversation with you? Be friendly! There is absolutely no obligation here whatsoever. Its just conversation after all.

 

First visit to a swinger club


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